How To Know When She's Using You

First of all, I would like to share this entry to all of you especially guys whether your girlfriend is using you or ..

Ditipu dan Dipergunakan...Bunyi macam sama but actually x sama yea...Ditipu ni selalu sangat happen in relationship but sometmes benda ni x de la berapa serius because sometimes kita tipu pada partner sebab nak jaga hati or sayang...

Dipergunakan pulak lain because it usually happen before starting a relationship or bila time nak kenal with someone yang kita suka...

In my opinion, bila kita dipergunakan, memang kita rasa sakit especially when we're not even dating with that girl...Sometimes silap lelaki because x buat research towards the girl yang kita minat and who knows maybe that girl dah ada boyfriend or husband...Chop, apa yang I nak share ni x de kena mengena dengan anyone instead nak share about bila kita dipergunakan...

"When a girl lies to you, She has no loyalty"

When it comes in relationship, we need to have a win win situation...Macamana kita nak tau yang kita dipergunakan?? Simple, even though we're not dating with the girl that we like, the girl will start depending on you...For example:

Situation bila belum offical jadi Girlfriend and not even Dating pun

a) Suruh beli macam2 barang yang dia nak and start cerita pasal barang yang dia nak...Maybe dia bagi hint dekat kita so that she will get what she wants...For example...

"You tau tak, dah lama I suka dekat perfume ni, last time I tgk harga dia mahal, and sekarang dah murah sikit...Pefume ni wangi sangat, and cuba You bau tester dia, sangat sedap, I suka laaaaa"

b) Time susah and boring baru cari kita and time tu la nak manja2 segala and buat suara horny..Ptuii...For example...

"Hey, You dekat mana? X pergi mana2 today?? Jom keluar, I boring laaa...Boleh tak You ambik I dekat rumah lagi half an hour, I siap2 jap k"...

c) Bila dah keluar, the girl mesti share story and cerita pasal benda2 yang dah past and semua pasal dia...Dia x nak tau anything pun pasal the guy yang bawak dia keluar...For example...

" Haaa, kalau You nak tau, I dengan ex boyfriend I dulu suka keluar and pergi sini...One day before raya, dia belanja I baju dekat kedai Guess ni laa..Eiii bestnya, how I wish dia ada dekat Malaysia...Now dia dekat Melbourne, so I ada You je untuk teman I...

d) Texting and sorok2 bila nak buat phone call...Bila texting muka mesti macam happy and tersenyum kambing, and bila on the phone pulak lain...For example...

" Hello, hye Anne...Hmmm, Afiq, jap eh, I nak pegi toilet cakap phone jap, sini bising laaa"...Pada hal bukan Anne, tapi Andy...

Anyway, if you guys rasa comfortable and happy dengan apa yang your partner did, that means you're not being used instead you guys enjoy the situation...But if rasa kalau dipergunakan setiap hari and benda sama dia repeat, u better leave her and find someone else...Relationship bukan lah semata-mata kita dipergunakan, because kita nak something yang fun especially for those yang tgh long distance relationship...Watch out guys, anything can happen yeah...